The Big List of Engineering Management Resources - March 2022

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Now as a Director of Engineering at Docker, I’ve been doing some type of engineering leadership for the last decade.

I have learned from the best over the years, and many resources have shaped who I am and philosophies for how I lead.

These are the resources that come to mind that may help other engineering managers, staff engineers, or other leaders in their journey.

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While many business books are full of fluff, are dry, and at times hard-to-read, there are many gems that have left an impact lasting years.

I’ve summarized some of the key takeaways I’ve had.

Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek

  • Building high-performance teams considering neuroscience, psychological safety, and empathy

Start With Why by Simon Sinek

  • Lead with context and carrots, beginning with purpose, cause, and beliefs. Why is more of the motivation and direction behind behavior, not How or What.
  • “There are only two ways to influence human behavior: you can manipulate it or you can inspire it.”
  • See Simon’s TED Talk here.

Drive by Daniel Pink

  • People will be happier and work harder if you share context and opportunities for Autonomy, Purpose, Mastery

It’s Your Ship by Captain D. Michael Abrashoff

  • Lead with purpose, vision, and create a team of leaders.
  • Listen “aggressively”, build up your people into leaders, and expect the best.

The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor

  • “When we are positive, our brains become more engaged, creative, motivated, energetic, resilient, and productive.”
  • Work can be fun, and there are good reasons to strive for it.

Team Topologies by Matthew Skelton and Manuel Pais

  • Minimizing Cognitive Load on teams
  • Split teams with "fracture planes"
  • Stream-aligned team: aligned to a flow of work from (usually) a segment of the business domain
  • Enabling team: helps a Stream-aligned team to overcome obstacles. Also detects missing capabilities.
  • Complicated Subsystem team: where significant mathematics/calculation/technical expertise is needed.
  • Platform team: a grouping of other team types that provide a compelling internal product to accelerate delivery by Stream-aligned teams

The Culture Code by Daniel Coyle

  • Psychological Safety is conducive to strong group work.
  • Vulnerability gives people a signal to speak up and cooperate.
  • Sharing values and close bonds leads to higher performance than companies that focus on the best talent or specific skillsets.
  • Some people are “Super-Cooperators”, putting teams first, giving signals that bond and direct a group.

The Culture Map by Erin Meyer

  • Cultures vary widely in how they give feedback, perceive hierarchy, make decisions based on relationships or mutual tasks, and concepts of time.
  • What may work in your culture may be understood wildly differently in other cultural settings.

No Rules Rules by Reed Hastings and Erin Meyer

  • Mediocre performance can drag down a team, lowering performance of the high performers, even setting a negative tone in the environment.
  • Netflix leads with freedom, responsibility, and low red tape.
  • Employees are empowered to make bottom-up decisions.

Working Backwards by Bill Carr and Colin Bryar

  • Narrative-driven documents work well for facilitating in-depth discussion, even for executive presentations.
  • Hiring should focus on raising the bar, and can include shadowing or other practices like Bar Raisers.
  • Single-threaded leaders help with efficiency and cohesiveness over projects or domains.
  • Use PR/FAQs to start with the end in mind, predicting success or failures of the final product and responding to concerns within the planning process.
  • Focus on inputs, not outputs. Look at and measure what levers can be pulled, not the indirect outcome.

Thinking in Systems by Donella Meadows

  • Most multi-part organization can be thought of in systems.
  • Systems include stocks and flows, and feedback loops.
  • Feedback loop types vary; some have goals of an equillibrium outcome, others amplify into a virtuous cycle.

Staff Engineer: Leadership Beyond the Management Track by Will Larson

  • Staff Engineer titles vary in responsibility betwee companies.
  • 4 archetypes are most commonly seen.
  • Staff Engineers most often take on leadership aspects, such as team leadership, complex subsystem leadership, cross-architecture leadership, or being a technical voice counterpart to managers.

High Output Management by Andrew Grove

  • Information gathering, decision making, and nudging others
  • Utilizing meetings, KPIs effectively
  • Leading through Objectives and Key Results (OKRs)
  • Organizational and management leverage

Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss

  • Unconventional, highly practical approaches to negotiations and difficult discussions
  • Mirroring, labeling, and reframing questions helps disarm and engage in active listening

Atomic Habits

  • Making 1% improvements each day
  • Creating habits that build off each other and are maintainable

Getting Things Done by David Allen

  • Getting work onto paper lowers stress
  • Regularly review your todos, curate

Crucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson

  • Succeed in conversations through self-reflection, creating shared meaning, candor, psychological safety, expression, and persuasion

Team of Teams by General Stanley McChrystal

  • Modern organizational systems can be complex and hard to map out, organic in design, versus complicated.
  • With complex systems, teams must be more adaptable to change, resilient, lower command and control.
  • Complex system design can look more like joined spiderwebs (teams) with little hierarchy: a team of teams.
  • Team leadership requires high transparency, decentralized decision-making to make these systems work well.

Work Rules! by Laszlo Bock

  • Employees should act as founders
  • “Culture Eats Strategy for Breakfast”
  • Smart generalists can be superior than experts. People clever and curious, able to solve change and problems unknown at time of hire.
  • Hiring managers and employees should be part of the hiring process, including sourcing.
  • Be objective about hiring. Scorecards, good note-taking.
  • Be data-driven.
  • Nudges are powerful as a leader, and are ways of avoiding micromanagement while having impact.

Deep Work by Cal Newport

  • All roles require some level of deep thinking, a lost art.
  • Deep work requires blocking off uninterrupted time, whether on a calendar or your own will.
  • Proper environment, inspiration, boredom, and time to think helps facilitate deep work.

The Manager’s Path by Camille Fournier

  • “It’s unrealistic to think you can or should shield your team from everything.”
  • Include the team in decisions and challenges.




Manager Tools

This is where I got my start, my first resource years ago when I became a team lead (thanks to my manager and mentor at the time, Paul Melliere).

Tech Startup Show by Charles Calzia

See Shawn Axsom’s recent podcast episode, here

Dev Interrupted

Level-up Engineering Podcast

Developing Leadership

Soft Skills Engineering

Coaching For Leaders

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